In favor of men who suffer from women

Prakash banjara

Mohit Rai (name change) of Bhojpur that his wife got married for the second time while her husband was in the UAE for foreign employment. Husband kept sending remittances to build a house on the land bought in Kathmandu, the house was built while the children were studying. Mohit also got the progress of the house built in UAE. There was not enough money to build a house. Loan was easily obtained from UAE Bank. Mohit fell from the high as soon as the news came that the house had been built and his wife had remarried.

When he came home on emergency leave, he found out that the house built by his sweet wife was in the name of his wife's second husband. Fascinated by this incident, Mohit is renting a room to his children and staying in the UAE to pay off the rest of the loan. ।

Similarly, Hitman Rai (name change) of Khotang also became a victim of injustice.Hitman could not say no when his wife intended to go aboard with him, who was running a hotel in Pokhara to support herself and her child,But where is the easiest way to go abroad? Hitman had to send his wife to Nepal within a month after paying for the visa and the return ticket. Upon her return to Nepal, Hitman's wife informed Hitman that she had turned away. She also took her infant son with her. She now lives in Hong Kong with her new husband. She benefited from marrying Lahure, but what about her husband? They also took that minor child as their own child. After that thunderstorm of the family, Hitman had returned to Nepal once. He had gone to Pokhara saying that he had to work hard to get the land which they bought in Pokhara. Hitman is now on the gulf. by effecting by COVID 19 he is planning to come back Nepal.. Now Hitman has a plan to go to the village and work in agriculture.

A similar incident took place in Sunsari recently. A woman who has been keeping her girlfriend hidden from her husband for a long time tried to commit suicide by consuming poison. when she was sure that her secret would be made public. The woman, who had chosen the path of suicide after her husband's might asks for the money which he had send to her, is now living a distraught life in her mother's house. At first glance, this incident sounds like violence against women, but what about her husband who works hard for her? We had to speak in his favor. The men mentioned above are only representative characters. A large number of men who have gone for foreign employment are suffering from such incidents.In some places, there are reports of women using their female weapons to blackmail men by playing on their human sensibilities. Some women have been active in the game of robbing their selfishness and deceiving themselves by making false accusations as soon as they don't need the man. Recently, MPs Ganga Chaudhary and Hira Gurung formally stated that male violence is rampant in the society. They say that it is not seen because men do not talk, but there is more violence against men than violence against women. There is no violence against women. In most of the houses, it is believed that women should be confined to the stove. Our society has not yet been able to say that housework is the work of all of us. But the tradition of women doing housework is still alive as men go to work outside. If you can't call it violence, consider housework as everyone's work, do it together. Men have been made tougher by society than women. It is said that man should not cry, just like thunderbolts should be endured, that is why men are trying to forcefully laugh even in pain. Most of the married men are found to be victims of violence. Married women want to be silent in front of their husbands as long as they win the heart of their husbands. To do so is tantamount to violence. For example, there are women in their own society who see their husbands playing cards for a while in their spare time, tearing up their cards and abusing their husbands for wrongdoing. There have been incidents of some women beating their husbands in our society. Because of that, women say that they have done a good job, but because of that, her husband has to walk in the society with his head bowed. In a sense, that is violence against men. Don't call playing cards a good job, but a man who runs a house should be respected and he should not be insulted in front of his friends. How small is the disgrace of a person who is called his beloved in small things. Everyone has a free tongue, both men and women. If anyone's free tongue is frustrated or physically or mentally disturbed, it should be considered as violence. Society is said to be male dominated. Those suffering men quietly endure the pain. Men do not want to bring up the issue of their home because of prestige when they have to suffer in their own home. Again, there is no place to complain about male violence. No one will resort to violence to help the vision of a prosperous society